Family VS Guy/Girl you love

**I got this beautiful email from my friend..Upon reading it, I was so touched..Isn't it so hard if our family members don't agree to someone we love..I agree family always wants the best for us but this is a tough decision thou..Between your family and the guy/girl you love..Some food for thoughts..Enjoy..**

Ever since the beginning...
The girl's family 
member disagree her 
relationship with the boy. Saying that because of 
family background, 
if she insist of being together with the boy, she'll 
suffer for her 
whole lifetime... 

Because of the pressure applied by family 
members, she frequently 
quarrel with him. The girl does love the boy, she 
used to ask him: 
"How much do you love me?" 
Because the boy is not good with words, he used 
to make her angry. 
With additional comment from her parents, her 
mood get even worse. 
The boy, has become her "anger releasing target". 
And the boy, just 
silently allowed her to continuously release her 
anger on him... 

Later, the boy graduated from University. He plan 
to further study 
overseas but before he left... He proposed to the 
girl... " I, don't 
know how to say nice words; but I do know that, I 
love you. If you 
agree, I am willing to take care of you, the whole 
life. A bout your 
family members, I will work hard to convince them 
and agree on us." 

"Marry me, will you?", the girl agreed. 

And her parents, looking at the effort shown by the 
boy, agreed with 
them. Finally, before the boy go oversea, they are 
engaged. The girl 
stay back in the hometown, step into the working 
society; whereas 
the boy continuing his study oversea... They 
maintained their 
relationship through telephone and letters. 
Although time is 
difficult to get through with, but both of them never 
give up. 

One day, the girl left home for work as usual; on 
her way to the bus 
stop, a car lose control and knock her down. As 
she awake from 
unconsciousness, she saw her parents and realize 
how seriously... 
she got hurt and how fortunate of her, not to get 
killed. 

Looking at her parents, with their faced got all wet 
by their tears, 
she tried to comfort them. But then, she found 
out.... She can't 
even spell out a word, she tried her best to make 
some voice but all 
she managed, was to breath without any voice. 
She's mute... 
According to the doctor, the injury affected her 
brain, and that 
cause her to be mute for the rest of her life. 
Listening to her 
parents persuade, but can't even reply with a 
single word, the girl 
collapsed... 
Throughout the days, others than crying silently, 
still it is 
crying... 

Later, the girl discharged from hospital. Returning 
to her home, 
everything is still like before. Except that the 
phone ring, has 
turned into the worst nightmare of hers. Ring after 
ring, 
continuously stimulate her, stimulating her pain... 
But she can't 
tell the boy. She don't want to be a burden to him, 
and wrote 
him a letter... Telling him that she no longer want 
to wait, the 
relationship between them ended, and even 
returned him the 
engagement ring. Facing the letters and telephone 
from the boy, all 
she can do, is to allow 
tears falling from her eyes... 

Her father decided to move, after seeing the pain 
she is suffering. 
Hoping that she could forget everything and be 
happier... Changing 
to a new environment, the girl started to learn, 
slowly picking up 
sign language and start over again... Also telling 
herself to forget 
the boy... 

One day, her best friend tell her that the boy's 
back. He's 
searching all around for her, she asked her best 
friend not to tell 
him about her and asked him to forget her.Later... 
There's never 
news about the boy, for more than a year. Her best 
friend tells her, 
that the boy is getting married soon, and passed 
the Wedding Card to 
her. She open the card sadly, but she found HER 
name on the card. 

The moment she want to ask her best friend, the 
boy appear in front 
of her. With an unfamiliar sign language, he told 
her.... " I spent 
more than a year's time, to force myself to learn 
sign language, in 
order to tell you, I have not forget our promise, give 
me a 
opportunity, let me be your voice." 

" I L O V E Y O U." 

Looking at the slow sign language by the boy, and 
the engagement 
ring she gave back to him... She finally smiled. 

Treat every love as last love... and only then, know 
how to give... 
Treat every day as last day... and only then, learn 
how to 
appreciate...
Don't ever give up as God never give 
up from loving you!!! 


Dear friends...to all guys and girls...this is how love 
should 
be...not be a coward and run away whenever there 
is a 
problem...remember that every problem has a 
solution...never ever 
break someone's heart...you may not know when it 
will happen to u!!!